Fetish FAQ | COAX Copenhagen’s Guide to Wearing & Enjoying Fetishwear
Welcome to the COAX Copenhagen Fetish FAQ - your go-to guide for exploring the thrilling world of fetishwear with style, confidence, and curiosity. Whether you're a total newbie, a curious couple, or a seasoned seductress, we’re answering your most burning questions about how to wear, style, and enjoy fetish lingerie and accessories. Ready to play?
👠 Getting Started with Fetishwear
What is fetishwear, exactly?
Fetishwear includes clothing and lingerie designed to excite, empower, and explore fantasies. Think wet look, leather, PVC, restraints, harnesses, and revealing styles. It’s about expressing desire and power - whether you’re into full-on roleplay or just want a kinky twist to your look.
I’m new to this - where do I start?
Start with one piece that excites you but doesn’t overwhelm. A harness, a wet look catsuit, or a leather collar can ease you into the vibe. Choose something you feel sexy in - confidence is the sexiest accessory.
Is fetishwear only for the bedroom?
Not at all. Many of our pieces double as bold fashion statements. A leather corset under a blazer? Hot. A harness over a sheer top? Yes please. Fetishwear is all about expressing power, pleasure, and personality - wherever you are.
Do I need to be into BDSM to wear fetishwear?
Nope! You don’t have to practice BDSM to enjoy the aesthetic and excitement of fetish styles. Some wear it for play, others for fashion, and many for both.
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🖤 Materials, Fit & Comfort
What’s the difference between wet look, vinyl, and real leather?
Wet look is soft and stretchy with a glossy shine or matte finish - super comfy. Vinyl is stiffer and ultra-glossy, often used for dramatic effect. Real leather is luxurious and long-lasting, but less stretchy. Each has its own seductive feel.
Is fetishwear comfortable?
Absolutely - when you pick the right size and style. Many pieces are stretchy, soft-lined, or adjustable. At COAX Copenhagen, we curate styles that feel as good as they look.
Help! I’m in between sizes. What should I do?
Go for adjustable styles like harnesses, strap bodysuits, or pieces with stretch. When in doubt, reach out - we’re happy to help guide you toward the right fit for your fantasies.
Will the faux leather stick to my skin or make me sweat?
Not the styles we stock. Our pieces are selected for their comfort, finish, and wearability. Many include a soft inner lining to keep things comfy and kissable.
Playful Styling & Real-Life Use
Can I wear fetishwear outside the bedroom?
Yes, and we love seeing it! Add edge to your outfit with a corset, wear fishnet under jeans, or let a leather choker peek out from under your blouse. Fetishwear = fashion with a heartbeat.
How do I wash and care for fetish lingerie?
Most fetishwear should be hand-washed with mild soap and cold water. Avoid wringing, twisting, or tumble drying. Faux leather and wet look styles like to air dry flat. Always check the label.
How can I introduce fetishwear to my partner?
Try surprising them with a harness over lingerie, or suggest exploring a fantasy together. Use humor, curiosity, and honesty - and maybe show them your latest COAX Copenhagen find 😉
Do your bondage sets really come with bags for storage?
Yes, some of our multi-piece BDSM sets include chic little storage bags - perfect for travel or keeping things private (but ready).
🎭 Power Play & Fantasy
Is wearing restraints or cuffs safe?
Yes - as long as it’s consensual, playful, and not too tight. Our cuffs are designed for soft restraint, not suspension or pain play. Always communicate and have a safe word (even if you never use it).
I want to try power play - do I need a full BDSM set?
Not at all. Start small: a blindfold, a choker, or a pair of wrist cuffs. Add as you get more comfortable. Fetishwear should enhance your connection, not complicate it.
Do you have anything for men or couples?
Yes. Our men’s fetishwear and couple-friendly pieces are designed to empower all bodies and fantasies. From leather briefs to matching restraint sets, we’ve got you covered - and uncovered.
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💋 Ready to Try?
Whether you’re dipping a toe or diving deep, fetishwear is about curiosity, expression, and personal power. Explore your fantasy. Break the rules. Dress for desire.
And if you’re not sure what to try first - we’re here to help. COAX Copenhagen is your playground.